To get the answer of this question is very difficult. Many times in life we love people with our pure heart. Our feelings are same like an innocent child. Our feelings are even clearer than the clearest water on earth. Our feelings are more fragrant than the any fragrance available on earth. Still our feelings dont get the reciprocal reply. Our feeling are taken to ride and broken like an unwanted thing. These kinds of feelings we experience in life for very few moments and times. If these feeling do not get the good response, then it is very difficult to experience them again.

To experience these types of feelings we require a special experience or relation at that time. Without the special purpose it is very difficult to feel them. Therefore few people are able to experience them. These feelings are like God gift to some. Every one does not have this opportunity. Thus first of all we should we happy of us that we are chosen for this purpose. Our attention should not be on how people react to use and what response we get out of it. However our attention should we on what experience we are bestowed in this way. It is sad for some time, when we dont get the favorable response.

We feel sad because our most of attention is on the outcome and not on the feelings through which we are going. It may be the true feelings of love. Here we focus more on the result of our love affair and not the feeling through which we are going. These feelings are as good as our beloved. Second these are just few chances in life to experience these feelings. Once missed, they are not going to come back again. Therefore we can make our selves strong and reduce their effect on us. Many people who does not got the opportunity to go through these feeling, also doesnt understand others.

To get the equal response for our feelings same feelings are required in other persons heart. If he or she doesnt have true feelings for us, then we can never get the desired response. So in nutshell it is not the fault of us or of the other. It is only the maturity level of our feelings. We can not blame any body for it. It is like this. Some people are alive outside, but emotionally dead inside. For them one can never expect any good response. So we require to judge our feelings well and from whom we have expectation. For the maturity of our feelings we are require to more enjoy our feeling then rather guessing on the results.