Nightclubs, in my opinion are not the best place in the world to look for permanent relationships with single women. However, you must not overlook this source of meeting potential mates. You can get lucky sometimes and meet someone special. And the odds are in your favor that you can meet some women for a good time (if you know what I mean).

To help you succeed with single women in nightclubs, here are a few tips:

• In general, single women don't go to nightclubs to get picked up. With this in mind, don't treat them like they are a piece of meat.

• While you're there ask guys there where are the best nightclubs in town to meet women.

• Don't go to nightclubs where you feel uncomfortable. This interferes with your success in meeting women.

• If you are not having much success with women at your local nightclubs, try nightclubs in another town near you.

• Don't wait until the end of a song to ask for a dance. You want to ask at the beginning of a song so you can spend more time with her on the dance floor.

• To save money on your bar tab, sip on wine all night. This way you will stay sober and not get drunk. Keep in mind that women are turned off by drunken men at nightclubs.

• Always keep these facts in mind when you are at nightclubs: Women drink alcohol at nightclubs and this tends to loosen her inhibitions, which is to your advantage.

• Women in nightclubs want a non-physical and non-sexual approach. In other words don't be pawing at a woman's body after just meeting her.

• Don't stand around all night waiting for something to happen - You Must Take Action!

• Send women that you are attracted to a glass of champagne. Use your waitress for this purpose. She will be very curious who sent her the drink.

• If a woman smiles at you first, she's interested in you and you must take advantage of this gesture. Approach her immediately and introduce yourself. So, be on the lookout for women who smile at you.

• This last comment is very important to your reputation at nightclubs: If you are a player at nightclubs and use women just for sex you will develop a bad reputation. The girls that you use have other female friends and they will warn them about you and to avoid you.