To show her you mean business, be the one who decides when and where to meet. And how often. Leave some gaps, create some space and she will want to move into it. Crowd her and she will back away.

Being in control means that you set the agenda. It doesn't mean being a bully.

I can hear someone saying, "But Scott, women are equal and they should have as much say in everything as we do".

Save it for your group counselling session, buddy. It may be politically correct, but it's not what makes you attractive to women!

Women like men to take charge, believe me. I have a woman friend who is very intelligent, very independent, very 'liberated' - and she tells me that she likes men to take the lead. She is, on the face of it, about the last woman you would think this of, but she is really quite typical in this respect.

And guys, this also applies between the sheets. Whatever you may have read about 'women on top', they don't want to be on top all the time. Take control of her body and she will love you for it.

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